Welcome to Visitors and New Members!

We always welcome visitors to our meetings and events and are glad to have new members.

You can reach us by mail at:

Friendship Force of Dallas

P. O. Box 551151

Dallas, TX 75355

Phone and fax: 214-553-4547 

E-mail: friendshipforcedallas@yahoo.com

Officers and Committee Chairs for 2010:

President: edward perez - erperez@acm.org

First Vice-president: Mary Latham - mjmcl104@yahoo.com

Second Vice-president / Membership: Sandy Kaiser - coachs@abilene.com

Program Coordinator: Dora Stahl - edstahl@swbell.net

Secretary: Ruth Barrow - rbarrow@wt.net

Treasurer: Jim Naughton - jjn9546@aol.com

Newsletter Editor: Ken Walker - pkintheroad@hotmail.com

Webmaster/flyers/yearbook: Mary Williams - txtravel@flash.net

International Exchange Coordinator: Ray Enstam - enstam@sbcglobal.net

Domestic Exchange Coordinator: Dale Klosterman - daleklosterman@sbcglobal.net

Publicity: TBA

Ways and Means: TBA

BridgeBuilders: Bob Langford - boblang@airmail.net and Ed Edgren - texmared@sbcglobal.net

Speaker's Bureau: Jim Bourn - airbourn@tx.rr.com

Telephone: Frits and Pat Andeweg - pja72@sbcglobal.net, fja79@sbcglobal.net

Sunshine: Peggy Benton - pjbentonathome@hotmail.com

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What do you mean by the term “Exchange?”

Answer: An “Exchange” is a visit to or from a club in another part of the world or another state. This involves home hospitality, the heart of a Friendship Force exchange, which provides the opportunity for people of different countries and cultures to connect at a personal level. We refer to it as an “Outbound Exchange” when we visit another club. Often an optional tour of the area follows an exchange. An “Inbound Exchange” occurs when a club visits us. We usually have one outbound and one inbound exchange per year that are arranged by our International organization. (Though in 2007 we are hosting three incoming clubs.) More information is on our Exchanges page. 

2. Do you travel as a group?

Answer: Yes and no; the group usually consists of 20 to 25 individuals, known as “Ambassadors.” Travel arrangements vary from departing the local airport as a group to some, or all, of the individuals making their own travel arrangements and meeting at the airport in order to depart the U.S. together, or meeting in a specific location in the host city at a definite time. The latter provides the most flexibility, but group travel can contribute to a more rewarding experience. The method of travel is a decision made by the Exchange Director.

3. What is an “Exchange Director?”

Answer: An Exchange Director” (ED) is an individual who has applied and been approved by the Board of Directors to plan, organize, and lead the Exchange. This is open to anyone who has the desired leadership qualities and can make the commitment of time needed for adequate planning and recruiting of Ambassadors with a 9 to 12 month lead-time. Our club has some great experienced Exchange Directors (ED) who are more than willing to mentor a first time ED. In addition, each year the club conducts a series of Exchange Director Workshops; all interested individuals may participate.

4. What is involved in becoming a member of The Friendship Force?

Answer: Join The Friendship Force IF you believe in the goals and mission of the organization; you like the challenge and excitement of new people, places and experiences; you believe that friendship among people of different countries and cultures can make the world more peaceful; and you have a curiosity about the world and enjoy learning about other cultures and ways of life. Contact the Membership Chair; complete the Membership Form and mail with your check to  Sandy Kaiser. 

5. How do I find out what is happening in the club?

Answer: You will receive a membership packet, and then periodic newsletters and frequent bulletins by mail or e-mail about activities, new members, and exchanges. Check out the local club’s website: www.friendshipforcedallas.org. On the international level, go to: www.thefriendshipforce.org. 

6. I don’t see myself traveling in the next year or so, should I still join?

Answer: Certainly, Friendship Force is not a travel club; there are many other aspects of involvement. The mission of Friendship Force is building global goodwill through personal friendships. This can be accomplished in other ways. You might consider being a home host, a day host, a small group dinner host, or someone who attends social activities to build friendships with individuals who have an interest in the goals of Friendship Force International. 

7. What do you mean by the term “home host?” 

Answer: You agree to share your home for seven days and nights with someone from another country or state. Learn about another culture without leaving home. You will have the opportunity to participate in a number of group/club outings so you won’t have to plan everything for you and your guest. There will still be time to share your special interests and places with your guest. The cost of events, admissions and outside meals is paid for our visitors by our club, using the fees the visitors have paid in advance. But as you would host a friend in your home, you host without compensation for meals at home and transportation in your car.

8. Since I am a single woman, would I be matched with another woman?

Answer: Yes, that is usually the situation, while couples normally host another couple. There are exceptions, but it is your decision. Frequently, the number of bedrooms and type of bed(s) available play a part in matching hosts and ambassadors (guests) as do interests and occupations. Also, traveling as a single woman is easier when you are with a group and a family; you are not alone.

9. Will I have the opportunity to communicate with my host or guest prior to his/her arrival?

Answer: Usually that is the case. It is amazing how many foreign guests and hosts have e-mail. Important: As soon as possible, contact your host/ ambassador by e-mail, letter, or phone. For many, friendships, communications, and private visits continue for years and even a lifetime.

10. What are the responsibilities of a “home host?”

Answer: A home host invites his/her guest to be a part of the family for the time the exchange is in your community. Involve your guest in the activities of your family. Participate in all official functions that are planned and attend all scheduled workshops. If you have an obligation during the exchange that is of such a nature that you are unable to take your guest, inform the Exchange Director and a “day host” will be arranged to accompany/entertain your guest on your busy day.

11. Exactly what is a “day host?”

Answer: It is someone who wants to participate in the exchange but, for whatever reason, is unable to home host. This individual volunteers to escort an ambassador for one or more days to a scheduled activity or, if it is a day when no group activity is planned, decides how and where to spend the day with the guest. It would be a good idea to discuss this with the guest so the activity you plan is something of interest to both of you.

12. What would be expected of me if I volunteer to be a “small group dinner host?”

Answer: You decide how many guests, in addition to the number in your family, you feel comfortable having for dinner on an evening specified by the Exchange Committee. The menu is your choice and generally you provide the main course and arrange for your invited guests to bring a salad, dessert, appetizer, or wine. It is entirely up to you. The evening is for you to plan whether you play a game or just visit. The whole idea is to share the culture of your guest and give them the opportunity to visit another home and meet others. When space allows, members, new and potential members are included as guests. Of course, the guest’s host family accompanies them to your dinner. Sharing, fun, laughter and conversation are the goals for the evening.

13. Do you plan visits to clubs in the United States?

Answer: Yes, there are 107 clubs in the United States and clubs can arrange what are called “Domestic Exchanges” or “Inter-club Exchanges” with another club where there is a mutual interest in such a visit. 

14. What types of social activities does the club have?

Answer: The club normally meets once a month all year round on the second Sunday of the month at 5 pm, or brunch in the winter. Exceptions are  when we are hosting an incoming club; then the social events associated with that exchange are our meeting for the month. Meetings feature speakers or parties. (Since most of our meetings also include a dinner at a restaurant, please let us know you are coming. Sometimes we need reservations by check in advance.) Topics include places we are visiting or hosting, world events, cultures of other countries and topics of interest to those who enjoy international culture, travel and friendship. During the year we typically have a picnic, small group dinners in homes, small group meetings in restaurants, and a holiday party. Other events may be planned as well.  We hold business meetings four times a year and Board meetings once a month. 

15. What should I expect financially when I go on an Outbound Exchange

Answer:  On an outbound exchange, we who are visitors have all or most of our expenses paid by the host club and their members; we pay for our own transportation to the host country and a fee to Friendship Force International for the exchange; some of that fee is paid to the hosting club to entertain us. If there is a tour following the exchange, you would pay the cost of the tour if you choose to go.

16. Am I required to host or go on Outbound Exchanges if I am a member?

Answer: There is no requirement by our club for members to host visitors or go on outbound exchanges. We hope though, that those joining would want to actively participate in these events, as they are how we can best learn about people in other cultures. If you cannot host or travel, you can still day host or participate in other ways.

17. What if I am not able to go or don’t care to go on the Outbound Exchange you have scheduled? Are there other ways for me to travel with the organization?

Answer: There are a number of other ways to travel. You may travel with another club from this country if they have room for you. There are Mission and Discover trips that include people from several countries where the Ambassadors travel somewhere and stay mostly in hotels but meet people from that country to interest them in forming Friendship Force Clubs. Several Festivals are held each year in different parts of the world where all are welcome to come to stay in a hotel but meet people from the area; there may or may not be home stays offered after the Festival. Regional and International Conferences are held each year, and there are long weekend trips in our area and volunteer opportunities as well. See the list of exchanges and events on the Exchanges and Other Clubs page and the Friendship Force International website. 

18. How much are membership dues?

Answer: Dues are for the calendar year. Annual dues are $40 for an individual member or $45 for a household membership (two or more people at the same address). Members of other Friendship Force clubs (Secondary Members) may join the Friendship Force of Dallas for an annual fee of $15. Dues are payable by November 15th for the following calendar year. Contact the Membership chairperson for an application form.

During the year, dues are prorated for new members:

Joining the club Jan 1 - June 30 shall pay the full amount

Joining the club July 1 - Aug 31 shall pay $20 per individual and $22.50 per household.

Joining the club Sept 1 - Nov 30 shall pay $9 per individual and $11 per household.

Joining the club Dec 1 - Dec 31 will not be considered a member until January 1 of the following year.

19. Does your club help people in other countries?

Answer: Yes. For several years, the Friendship Force of Dallas club has donated refurbished computers fitted with sound cards to schools for the blind in Peru, Chile, Romania and Palestine. We call this our BridgeBuilder Project. The latest computers were donated to the School for the Visually Deficient in Brasov, Romania. The Brasov and Sibiu clubs visited Dallas in April 2007 and brought back additional computers to Brasov. See photos on our Computers to Romania page. Contacts are Bob Langford or Ed Edgren. See additional articles about this project and computers for the blind on our Articles page.

For additional information, contact a board member.

Our purpose is to be a multi-cultural group that promotes peace and friendship in the world by building global good will through personal friendships and exchanges.

Our mission is building world understanding through personal friendships.

Our vision is to be an outstanding model as a diverse and actively involved Friendship Club representing Dallas, Texas to the world.