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June 2004

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Howard Bradley

 

It is with deep sadness I share information about services for Howard Bradley. He was our adopted Father and Grandfather! He died after emergency colon surgery in Honolulu and had just completed a week's visit in Hawaii. He and I were on the plane set to come home. Funeral arrangements are as follows:

An announcement will be in Saturday's paper and the full obituary will be in Sunday's paper. (See below)
Visitation: Sunday 3-5pm at Restland Funeral Home
Funeral: Monday 1:30pm at Wildwood Chapel at Restland, burial follows immediately.

Thanks!
Myrna Ridings

 

Obituary

 

James Howard Bradley left us on Father's Day, June 20, 2004. He was born in Temple, Texas October 14, 1915 to Robert Lee and Pauline Bradley. As a child he had many adventures and developed friendships that lasted over 80 years. He attended the University of Texas before joining Braniff Airlines. He retired as a salesman with the security firm of Hopper and Hawkins.

 

He married his beloved wife Emma in Temple in 1938; they were married for 47 years, until Emma's death in 1985. Their only daughter, Judy Simpkins Wilson died in 2001. She was their absolute pride and joy throughout her life. Survivors are greatly loved grandchildren Kim (Paul) Howard of Grapevine and Robert Simpkins of The Colony; five great grandchildren: Tara, CJ (his namesake), Corey, Tyler and McKenna Howard; sister-in-law Laverne Alexander; nephews Rob (Joann) Alexander of North Carolina and Reggie (Rhonda) Alexander of Hawkins, Texas; niece Marsha (Mike) Musclewhite of North Carolina; and the extended families of the nephews and nieces. Also the family of Shirley Ann Mack, of Dallas, must be included because of the lifelong love they exchanged with Mr. Bradley. Howard was also blessed to have had the love of an "adopted" family in the Ridings of Richardson, Texas. Dick, Myrna, Jeff and Matt Ridings mourn his death.

 

Besides his family, Howard loved dogs and owned many in his life. He liked playing cards, acquiring new gadgets, garage sales, and being helpful to lifelong neighbors and friends. At age 85, he made his first skydive with his dear friend Bill (Ace) Davoust and was looking forward to doing another. He also rode his motorcycle for enjoyment. He loved to travel and found new adventures over the last few years in England, Ireland, Japan and Hawaii. He traveled the United States for many years in his motor home, with his best furry friend Max sitting on his lap or next to his seat.

 

He taught his children, his grandchildren and his great grandchildren all to drive at the age of 11, which is when he began driving himself to school. At that age, he began driving his great aunt Jessie across the country during the summers when she was the first sales woman for Hoover Vacuum. 

 

He was a member of New Covenant Presbyterian Church and a devoted member of the Masonic Lodge. After his wife's death, he began volunteering with VNA Hospice and Meals on Wheels devoting hundreds of hours of caring service until the time of his death.

 

Funeral services will be held at Restland Wildwood Chapel on Monday, June 28, 2004 at 1:30 pm with visitation on Sunday from 3L00 until 5:00 pm at Restland Funeral Home. Memorial gifts may be given to the American Cancer Society in recognition of both his wife and daughter or to Visiting Nurses Association in memory of all his years of active and honorable voluntary service.

 

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Asheville Inter-Club Exchange by Chris Mocarski Michalek, Exchange Director

April 3-7, 2004 marked the date for the INTER-CLUB EXCHANGE of Friendship Force Asheville and Friendship Force Dallas. Fifteen ambassadors were the recipients of fun, food, and fellowship that included a whirlwind of activities. 

Asheville guests included: Peggy and Doug Judkins hosted by Wendy and John Whaley; Gay and Al Kriek hosted by Mary and Lee Latham; Perry Kelly, Asheville ED with Sally and Doug Lowery hosted by Jim Bourn; Rob and  Shirley Merolla hosted by Susan Cathcart and Mary Suther; Carol Mullen and Rudi Simco hosted by Lanell Koch; Doris & Anco Prak hosted by Peggy Benton and Ken Walker; and Mary and Dick Warwick hosted by Lilliana Hollister and Angie Zarate.

Additionally, support was provided by "always on call" Day Hosts and "ever present" Exchange Committee Members which included: Susan Cooper; Wayne Garrett; Paula Harkey; Nancy and Al Hicks; Ana Marie Lee - Treasurer; Chris Mocarski Michalek - Dallas ED; Rudy Michalek; Paula Rose; Zia Shamsy; Pam Varney-Terrell - Welcome Package; Allen Terrell; Edward Perez - Maps, Directions; and Mary Williams - Publications.

The itinerary was packed and steady starting on Saturday, April 3rd with a FF welcome and continuing with dinner at the Meyerson Pavilion along with attendance at a Dallas Symphony Concert with Guest Artist Bradley Hunter Welch.  

On Sunday, April 4th, Fort Worth was featured to include an optional Fort Worth Guided Walking Tour with lunch at the Kimball Museum and tours of the Kimball, Amon Carter, Modern Art Museum, Japanese Garden, Fort Worth Botanical Garden plus a visit to the Fort Worth Stockyards to include Billy Bob's Honky-Tonk, Main Street, and the ever-popular Cattle Drive.  

Monday,April 5th was a Free Day for Ambassador guests and hosts, but featured a premier at-home reception hosted graciously by Nancy & Al Hicks and Paula Harkey & Wayne Garrett.  

Tuesday, April 6th offered a first-ever (for FFD) Guided tour of the Dallas Arts District, followed by lunch at the impressive Tower Club, Dallas City Hall Tour conducted by Beth Huddleson, Office of Protocol, and ending with our Ambassador's Choice for the remainder of the day to visit other Dallas highlights.  

Wednesday, April 7th, the final day, started with a Visit to our Dallas Blooms at the Arboretum, allowed for a restful afternoon at home or time for area shopping and conclude with dancing, singing, entertainment and just plain FUN at the Farewell Dinner at Plano's Blue Mesa Grill. To date, the thank you notes, letters, and emails from our Asheville friends continue to be positive, appreciative, and genuinely impressed  with our big "D."  

 

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Jim's Jewels

 

By the time you receive this newsletter, I will be in Europe for our exchange with Kiel and South Flanders. It promises to be a great exchange and a chance to meet many new friends. 

 

The exchanges for 2005 have been approved and work has started for the outbound to Trujillo, Peru and an inbound from Tottori, Japan. Speaking of Exchanges, a big "atta-girl" and thanks to Chris Michalek as ED and Paula Harkey and Nancy Hicks for a great Asheville Inter-Club exchange. Much was learned - mainly don't walk so far, and I will take responsibility for that error. Cleveland County, UK is coming in the fall. Ray Enstam is heading that exchange. Let's all get behind him in our usual gracious Texas style.

 

Brud Kisner is heading up the Nominations Committee for Board officers for next year. Now is the time to let your ideas and wishes be known. We now have a newsletter editor - Edward Perez. Thanks a million, as I type like the frog getting out of the famous well. (Type three letters, backspace one, etc. to correct errors.) 

 

The mini-exchanges in the region have also started. Let me know if any of you go on one and how you liked it. These are small exchanges where one city offers so many homes for a weekend and then it's "first come, first served" for any member in the region. Our turn will come; those that offer homes will have a priority on future exchanges. 

 

We have had several visitors who have expressed interest in joining. Just talk it up everywhere you go and it will amaze you how much interest the club generates. You even meet new friends.

 

Again, I want to thank the officers and committees who have helped so much this year. We will try several new ideas in our fall program. Look for the flyers on events in the fall as we try to maximize the fun and minimize the cost. 

 

Remember the International Conference is in Los Angeles in early November. Our new President or a club representative will attend. Let me know if you are planning to attend. 

 

Our club has a " can do" reputation. Have a great summer!

 

In Friendship, 

Jim  

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Meetings

 

August Meeting

 

Program:  Ice Cream Social, business meeting, and election of officers for 2005. 

                    We will not serve dinner, but have ice cream and other desserts. 

Time:         Sunday August 8 at 7 PM 

Place:        Jim Bourn's home. 

Cost:         $3, payable at the door. 

Reserve:   For more information and to RSVP, please contact Paula Rose at

                    paularose2000@hotmail.com by August 4.

 

September Meeting

 

Program:   England/ planning for inbound exchange from England in October 

Time:          Sunday, September 12, 5 PM

Place:         Fox and Hounds Restaurant, 10051 Whitehurst, Dallas 75243

                     (It is just south of LBJ, Skillman exit - west side of the street - right across

                     Skillman from the El Fenix we visited in July.)

Food:          Pub food such as fish and chips $7.49, chicken wings $6.99, burger 

                     basket (also veggie burger) $6.99, salads w/ chicken $7.95. Order from the

                     menu and pay with separate checks. Beer and drinks available.

Reserve:    Please RSVP by Sept. 8 to Susan Cooper, copertuz@flash.net.

 

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Dallas Club News

Nominating Committee

The Nominating Committee, headed by Brud Kisner and composed of Susan Cooper, Betty Mayeur, Edward Perez, and Paula Rose, has nearly a full slate of proposed officers for 2005. We will hold an election during the August 8 Ice Cream Social and  club meeting at Jim Bourn's home. Please plan to attend this meeting/social to ensure a quorum. We will notify you of the nominations in July by email or by US Mail if you do not have e-mail.  

UPDATE: The slate of officers for 2005 is as follows:

President: Paula Rose

First Vice President: Mary Suther

Second Vice President (Membership): Herb and Juli Ziev

Third Vice President (Programs): Mary Latham

Treasurer: Susan Cooper

Secretary: Betty Mayeur and Pat Peters

 

Additional nominations may be made from the floor with the person's prior approval.

Member Updates

 

* Jim Bourn's email is airbourn@comcast.net.

* Please contact the webmaster for Susan Cathcart's correct home phone number.

* Mac Mackenzie [BEMackenzi@aol.com] wrote: Our fax # is incorrect! We don't have a second line so the fax is the same as telephone but you need to call first so that we can switch over.

 

New Member

 

Welcome to Barbara Jones: bjones@virginiacook.com.

 

New Phone Number!!!

 

The board recently voted to end our voice mail agreement but to continue our White Pages listing. PLEASE MAKE NOTE OF THE NEW CLUB PHONE & FAX NUMBER: 214-553-4547.

 

New Newsletter Editor

 

Edward Perez has agreed to publish the newsletter for our club. So please send your news, photos and changes to him at erperez@acm.org.  "Thank you, thank you, Edward!",  Mary Williams.

 

Newsletter Deadlines

 

Please send all articles, news items, photos, etc. to Edward Perez: erperez@acm.org by the 20th of July, September, and November for the next newsletter.  

 

Board Meetings

 

The FFD Board meets the second Monday of each month (with exceptions during exchanges) at 7 pm at the Richardson YMCA [821 Custer Road in Richardson, just S. of Arapaho]. If you are a Board member or Committee chair, please plan to attend. This is where we conduct the business of the club; you are needed so we have a quorum and your input. These meetings are open to anyone who wishes to attend. The next meeting will be July 12.

 

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2004 Exchanges  

 

Outbound: Kiel, Germany and South Flanders, Belgium June 1-15, 2004  

 

By the time you're reading this, Jim Bourn will be leading FFD'ers on a two-week trip to Kiel, Germany [in northern Germany; FFers from there were our first inbound exchange in 1995] and then on to Oudenaarde in the Flanders region of Belgium. Maybe they'll bring some of those famous Belgian chocolates to share!  

 

Inbound: Cleveland County, England October 9-16, 2004  

 

In October, we will host FF friends from Cleveland County, England. Ray Enstam has been appointed Exchange Director. If you are interested in being on the planning committee, hosting, day hosting or helping in any way, contact Ray at enstam@sbcglobal.net. Twelve ambassadors have signed up to come so far. They will travel to Tuxla, Mexico after visiting us. 

 

Formerly known as Teesside, this county of northeast England is industrially oriented around the Lower Tees Valley and estuary. It is bounded by Durham to the northwest, North Yorkshire to the south, and the North Sea to the northeast. Winters are long and hard, spring late and short, and summer temperatures generally cool. The annual rainfall (about 25 inches) is among the lowest in the country, thanks largely to the county being located in the lee rain shadow of the Pennine uplands. 

 

Exchange with other clubs

 

See the many opportunities you have to travel with other clubs - Click here! 

Other clubs

 

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2005 Dallas Exchanges

from Debbie Powell, FFI

 

Dear Friends, A World of Friendship Awaits You! We are happy to announce that the following exchanges were assigned to your Club for 2005:

 

* Dallas and Austin, USA to Trujillo, Libertad, Peru [Suggested Date: March 2005]

 

* Tottori, Japan to Dallas, USA [Suggested Date: May 2005]

 

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News from FFI

 

Friendship Force Mourns Death of Wayne Smith

Dear friends,

It is with great sadness that I write to tell you of the death of our founder and longtime leader, Wayne Smith, Wednesday night (June 16) at his home in Big Canoe, Georgia. He was 69 years old. I know each member of the global Friendship Force family joins me in expressing our deepest sympathy to Wayne's wife, Carolyn, his daughter and our former President, Susie Smith, and all the members of their family. 

 

I spoke with Wayne several weeks ago. As always, he was energetically pursuing new ways to fulfill his lifelong passion for bringing people together in friendship. As many of you know, Wayne's most recent activity with the Friendship Force was last December when he led a delegation to Jordan, with home stays he arranged with Iraqi families in Jordan. Wayne created the Friendship Force and led it for its first 24 years, leaving us a wonderful legacy. 

 

Our greatest tribute to this giant of a man will be to rededicate ourselves to the task he began. Let us make his dream our dream, knowing that he never tired of telling us, "a world of friends is a world of peace." 

 

A memorial service will be held for Wayne at the Big Canoe Chapel on Monday, June 21 at 2:00 p.m. If you would like to send any messages to the family, you may send them to Carolyn Smith at: 9003 Trotter's Lane, 10173 Big Canoe, Big Canoe, Georgia 30143. Next week we will put an appropriate tribute to Wayne on the FFI website.

 

In friendship, 

George Brown
President

 

NOTE: See more on Wayne Smith on the FFI page.

 

New FFI President

 

At the March 19, 2004 meeting of the FFI Board of Trustees, George Brown was elected the next President of Friendship Force International. Many of you know George well, as he served in various capacities at the FFI office in the past. 

 

For those of you who do not know George, he brings a wide range of international experience to the position. He knows FFI well, but having worked for other international exchange organizations, he has a diverse background to draw upon as he takes over as FFI's next president. George began serving as President of FFI on April 1, 2004, but for the first two months he will be in transition from his current job as Executive Director of the Georgia Council for International Visitors (whose offices, conveniently, are located in the same building as FFI's). Even during the transition phase, however, he will be participating fully in the life of FFI by attending the European and Japanese leadership meetings in May. 

 

If you wish to welcome George Brown as our new president, you can send him an e-mail at gbrown@friendshipforce.org. However, please keep in mind that George will be in transition during the next month.

 

Highlights at FFI

 

See each monthly issue of the Leadership Forum for the whole text. Here are some highlights from George Brown's May Leadership Forum:

 

The first month on the job as President of FFI has been hectic, but very rewarding. It has been my privilege to participate in regional meetings in Milwaukee, Wisconsin; Missoula, Montana; Hamburg, Germany; and tomorrow I will travel to Tokyo, Japan for the all-Japan annual meeting. Congratulations to the host clubs for all these conferences. I've been very impressed and gratified by the excellent programs and the enthusiastic participation by our leaders. I've shared my ideas for the future, and I've also been listening to our leaders - hearing their hopes for the Friendship Force, as well as the challenges that they face. Through all the meetings, receptions, meals, and parties, my faith in our organization and the dedication of our leaders has been strongly reinforced. In the months ahead I'll be spending most of my time at the office in Atlanta, working with the staff as we complete this year's exchanges and plan for next year. I'll also be looking for new opportunities for Friendship Force International as together we seek to fulfill our vision that a world of friends is a world of peace.

 

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FFDers Abroad

 

See the article by Maureen Smith on their trip to Portugal. Also see articles by other members on our Articles page.

 

[If you have a story to tell about any of your recent trips abroad, share them with us. Send your article to erperez@acm.com. Thanks, Edward]  

 

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Phone and fax: 214-553-4547 

E-mail: friendshipforcedallas@yahoo.com

Friendship Force International: www.thefriendshipforce.org

 

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